Addicted to the thrill of sleeping with married women By Akhil Sharma, Elle. Story highlights Akhil Sharma writes that secrecy was a big appeal of sleeping with married women Sharma said the relationships made him feel both "special" and "unimportant" It has been nearly 20 years since Sharma dated a married woman. I am not sure what caused me to start sleeping with married women, especially ones who were much older than I was. The easy explanation is that I was abandoned by my mother, and so I wanted to have a relationship with someone who would comfort me the way a mother can a child. The truth, as with everything involving love and sex and loss, is more confusing to me. The single most important event in my life is my brother's accident. When I was 10 and my brother 14, he dived into a swimming pool, struck his head on the pool's bottom, and remained underwater for three minutes. When he was pulled out, he could no longer walk or talk.
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Is it her, or the illicitness of the situation? You have no financial obligations to this woman and there is no emotional connection, so you are not even going to get hurt if actually, make that when the relationship ends. Even the fact that she has been stringing you along for a year is a sexual plus. But, contrary to received wisdom, we are becoming more, rather than less moralistic about infidelity. It is no coincidence that infidelity is practically a legacy in some families and it might be worth reflecting on whether your own sexual behaviour might be a case of history repeating itself. Most of what we do is learnt behaviour, but somehow it seems easier to consider questionable sexual practices as a pathology. In reality, sex addicts are very rare and they are all, without exception, burdened by a complete inability to control their sexual impulses.
You know that sometimes you have unexciting sex and that's OK because you have approximately 5 million more times to get it right. You know that sometimes sex isn't always a magical roller coaster ride of puppy dogs riding on unicorns and that's cool. You don't obsess over it because you know it's no biggie.
Believe it, or not women enjoy sex just as much as men do. When a woman feels dissatisfied with her sex life, she may find a lover outside marriage to meet her needs, says Solene Paillet. Men commit infidelity primarily because physical urges drive them while women do so for sexual and emotional fulfilment. Mentioned below are some reasons women are unfaithful. She wants to feel desirable. She wants him to take her on romantic dates, buy her gifts, and vacation with her. However, when she feels like a nanny or maid, it may prompt her to find a lover who shows her an exciting time. When a husband is thoughtful towards his wife, engages in fun conversations with her, participates with her in building a home, and is a co-partner in her social life, it supplies her with the emotional intimacy she craves. When such emotional intimacy is lacking, a wife may seek it from someone outside the marriage.